Role playing is a great way to spice up your sex life. It can bring new interest in the bedroom, and can help keep couples happy and faithful. Role playing can be a lot of fun, but for first timers it can feel strange and uncomfortable. There are several things you can do to overcome this and have a great time.
Before you embark on any role play in the bedroom you need to come up with some ground rules. If there are things you simply aren’t willing to do, this needs to be communicated before hand. If you are role playing with rougher roles, you need to have a way to let your partner know that they don’t want to continue. Many couples use a safe word. This should be something that isn’t ordinarily said during sex so it won’t get confused. Think of a color, or a food, as these aren’t typically excited mutterings.
If you are new to role-playing, try to start with a scenario that isn’t too off the wall. If your partner works as a secretary, try to incorporate that in to the scenario. This will make it more comfortable to get in to the role without feeling silly. Once that’s done and your comfort levels are higher, move on to other scenarios until you’ve found one that you both love.
Be Willing to Stop
It’s not uncommon to get in to a scene just to have the other person not getting that in to it. When this happens, you will need to regroup and try something else. Never take anything personally. If your partner isn’t comfortable after you’ve started, just understand that it may have sounded like a good idea but the practice isn’t what they expected.